a. Knowing what you want.

b. Knowing what you don’t want.

c. Knowing who you are.

d. Knowing what matters.

e. Knowing what doesn’t matter.

f. Knowing what you’ll say No to and what you’ll say Yes to, and being able to remember and stick to your No/Yes even when distracted, stressed, under pressure, etc.

g. Knowing that it’s okay if other people don’t have the same clarity, or don’t understand or agree with your choices.