Anytime you want. It doesn’t have to begin on Monday morning, or Sunday evening, or whenever your standard “start time” is… You’ve botched a couple of days, or got sick? Okay. It happens. Breathe, and start your week when you decide to start it. Now. In an hour. Tomorrow morning.
With room for restarts. Restarts are allowed.
Expecting success, not perfection. A focus on perfection has a… Continue reading
The problem with outcomes is that we don’t always know where they come from.
The desire for an outcome, I mean. Where does that desire originate?
We think we want a particular outcome, but sometimes, we find that the goal we’ve set isn’t really what matters at all.
Maybe we’re after something deeper, something different, some feeling we think the goal will give us.
There… Continue reading
The toughest part of writing is starting.
Staring at the blank page, trying to remember all your brilliant ideas. You had so many of them last night, during your kid’s piano recital… and again, during that totally unproductive meeting at work, but now…
Where have all the ideas gone?
Ideas are ephemeral unless they’re captured.
So you should capture them, via any method handy, when you… Continue reading
Much of your stress starts with either lack of a plan or a bad plan.
Lack of a plan means that you have no (known, valid) reason to say no. Requests, demands, suggestions, obligations, interruptions come at you. You stutter and stammer and end up obligating yourself to 157 things you don’t want to do.
But without a plan, you have no direction. You have not claimed… Continue reading
There is a difference between striving for excellence and striving for perfection. The first is attainable, gratifying, and healthy. The second is unattainable, frustrating, and neurotic. It is also a terrible waste of time.
– Edwin Bliss
Imperfect progress realized is better than perfection imagined.
A perfectly imagined work of art is useless until it exists outside of your head. And outside of your head it won’t be… Continue reading
In no particular order, an ever-evolving list.
[If they’re italicized, I’ve put them on the list to remind myself to try them out.]