I like to feel good.
You like to feel good.
But we’re afraid to judge things by how they make us feel.
We know some things that seem to make us feel good don’t. Not really. Some things give us a gratification hit, a little emotional boost, but aren’t good for us. If we follow the feeling good path, it might lead to bad results… Continue reading
About yourself, about life, and about every single person you meet.
Assume that you have done your best, and your best will keep getting better.
Assume that you are loved, and lovely.
Assume that you have something valuable to offer. Assume that you are valuable. You are worthy. You are accepted. You are wanted. You are needed. You are admired. You are understood. You do matter… Continue reading
I had a conversation with my Dad when I was just about to graduate from college. I’ll never forget it. He said, “You know, Annie, I’m in my fifties now, but I still feel, inside, exactly the same as I did at 22.”
And I thought… “Well, darn, here I am at 22 and I guess this is it.”
Now I’m 35 and I still feel pretty much… Continue reading
1. Everybody’s version of success is different.
When someone says they have success at something, find out what success means in their definition.
They might mean, “I make a lot of money doing this,” and you might mean, “I am really happy doing this.”
If you want to learn from someone, you need to have a shared definition of success. Otherwise they might teach you all they… Continue reading
We all operate from assumptions, to some degree.
We assume the world will keep spinning, the sun will rise, and our boss will expect us to show up at work as usual.
So we set the alarm, get up, get dressed, and go to work.
What’s the problem with assumptions like that? Nothing, really. Those type of assumptions are experiential; they are based on our actual experiences… Continue reading