What are you going to do?
You can avoid it, turn your back to it, resist the energy calling you and the possibilities awaiting you. You can tell Today to wait on you. (It won’t, but tomorrow is around the corner, I hear.) Are you drained, exhausted, sick in body or sick at heart?
Is rest what you need today?
You can… Continue reading
You can’t treat writing as some mystical, mysterious, only-for-the-called-and-gifted endeavor.
Not if you want to do much of it.
If it helps, think of it as content production. Personally, I hate that term. It’s like saying meal production instead of cooking.
But if it helps, who cares.
Whatever you call it, to do more of it, break it down. Then tackle one piece at a time. Maybe… Continue reading
I find it harder to write reviews of fiction than of nonfiction. I think it’s because, once we get past the basic questions (Can this author write a decent sentence? Do they understand grammar? Is there an actual plot? Are the characters believable?) we get to subjective questions.
For example, I hated Moby Dick with all the whale-hunting passion of a true Ahab.
I never got through anything… Continue reading
I like to feel good.
You like to feel good.
But we’re afraid to judge things by how they make us feel.
We know some things that seem to make us feel good don’t. Not really. Some things give us a gratification hit, a little emotional boost, but aren’t good for us. If we follow the feeling good path, it might lead to bad results… Continue reading
About yourself, about life, and about every single person you meet.
Assume that you have done your best, and your best will keep getting better.
Assume that you are loved, and lovely.
Assume that you have something valuable to offer. Assume that you are valuable. You are worthy. You are accepted. You are wanted. You are needed. You are admired. You are understood. You do matter… Continue reading
There’s writing and then there’s content.
It’s an unfortunate distinction. It sets up a dichotomy that doesn’t have to be there. It creates a content versus writing situation, in which “real writers” look down on content creation as a lower, commercialized activity. This isn’t new. Real writers have always been looking down on commercial writing, then remembering they have to eat, and then rethinking their standards.
When I… Continue reading
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This is an important book. Also, before you get the wrong idea, here’s the subtitle:
How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You
This book is not about how you can learn to control people. (That’s The Prince by Machiavelli.)
It’s about people who… Continue reading