You can start by asking: “Will you help me with _______ ?”
- You can barter: stuff for work or stuff for stuff.
- You can trade: work for work.
- You can network: ask other people how to get help. (“Do you know someone who could help me…?”)
- You can offer: there are plenty of people out
Focusing on what matters feels like the riskiest thing to do.
You want to cover all your bases.
But it’s like this:
You have a loaf of bread. Those are your possibilities. One slice of bread = one possibility.
And you have a big spoonful of peanut butter and a big spoonful of jelly. That’s you. Your resources: time, energy, money, attention, ability. A couple… Continue reading
Acting on your intuition is trusting yourself: your ability to learn, to adapt, to understand, to see, to decide, to act.
Acting on your intuition is assessing and deciding what matters, what is really going on, as you are in the moment.
It’s allowing the flow of reality as it plays out to interact with the internal understanding that’s going on inside you… and then making conclusions… Continue reading
No, thank you.
Thanks, but no thanks.
That sounds lovely, but no.
Not right now.
Not for me.
It’s not an option.
I won’t be able to.
It won’t work for me.
I have a conflict.
I have plans.
That’s a negative.
I’ll have to pass.
I have other things planned for that time.
My project list is already full for the month/year.
What a great idea!… Continue reading
1. Keep comparing what you need to do with what others need to do.
And focus on the seeming inequality of it all. Your work is so demanding, your circumstances so difficult. No one else understands the struggle.
2. Don’t admit that your perspective might be skewed.
Don’t admit that your work will always seem more difficult to you, because it is your own.
You face… Continue reading
To achieve excellence, we must first understand the reality of the everyday, with all its demands and potential frustrations.
Disorder will not induce creativity.
If your work space (cubicle, home office, desk squished into a corner, your car, big desk in big office with nice view, studio, coworking space) is crammed with clutter or not equipped with the basic supplies you need… Continue reading